Are there 'magic' words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls?
Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call.
Cool huh?...
I am going to share this with you for anybody (probably one of tens of thousands of people) facing a relationship problem that was unjustifiably destroyed.
So I am going to answer..."How do I get my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?"
Probably right about now you are serious about saving or rekindling your relationship, which is what led you to this article in the first place. But if you are feeling overly anxious to get your ex back, you may be behaving in the wrong way, causing your ex to pull away naturally. It is human nature in general to resist this kind of pressure. Struggling against human nature is completely pointless, and it will only make matters worse, trust me.
Are you calling your ex too much, constantly writing him e-mails or text messaging him? Are you trying to make him feel sorry for you? If you are doing these things, stop! If you are asking yourself " What can I do to get my ex boyfriend back", then you need to stop doing these things right now.
In the Magic of Making Up, it lays out a complete strategy to follow. If you use this technique alone, without an 'overall' plan or strategy....you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call.
And here is What Not To Say....
Before we get into the actual words, let's go over what message almost NEVER workss, and worse. Puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position. These usually fall into 2 categories.
The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like: " John, please please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."
And the EMERGENCY- "John, this is an EMERGENCY. Please call me as a soon as you get this."
Now I think you can see what is going wrong with both of those approaches? So, I won't go on and on....
Here is a little tip use curiosity & self interest to your advantage....
And here is the BIG SECRET!
When you combine the two, you have a recipe that WILL work 'magic'. So, lets look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.
In a friendly tone:
"Hi, John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person."
Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest?
John will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?", "What does she appreciate?" is what will be going through his head. And he feels good because it is a positive message, you see?
There are alot more on the 'Magic of Making Up' site, especially if you want to win your ex back quickly.
I hope this helps you in your in devours. Good luck and godspeed.
http://supcomad01.makingup.hop.clickbank.net/
P.S.-FYI, just copy the link and put it in the website address box and hit enter to continue on.
Wednesday, August 26, 2009
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